Rabu, 30 Juni 2010

Q.O.T.W: Family members...helping or harming?

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I was wondering if any of your family members have ever crossed the line when it comes to your childs hair? I have read stories of family members cutting, relaxing, painfully combing (etc) a childs hair without the parents permission...

Has any of the above ever happened to you and how did you handle it?

As for us...

I am going to try to make this very long story short. When A was 2 years old her Aunt braided her hair and added beads. Well, my Grandmother (A's Great Grandma) thought she was helping me by removing the beads. She removed all of the beads on the right side of her head by cutting the end bead off each braid. I'm not sure how she didn't realize she was cutting her hair off but A's right side is a little shorter than her left side. I honestly wanted to cry. In fact, I may have. lol I knew she didn't understand the beading process so I just explained it all to her and left it at that. She felt pretty bad and (thankfully) it never happened again.

I have a couple of other stories but nothing compares to that. Your turn!

Why Should I Braid My Hair?

Q's sporting Box Braids again!
She actually let me do them all in one sitting this time! Must have had a captivating movie. :) lol - well, a new one anyway.
The dress is Happy Green Bee - I absolutely LOVE them!

I used to do something similar to this on my own hair in high school and college! :) I just thought it looked neat. But it wasn't until just recently I've been learning (prompted by a protective hair care challenge over on Beads, Braids and Beyond) that there are some big benefits to braiding.  Note: However, like with anything, there are those  who claim the opposite! 



Benefits of Box Braids:
* This style is easy and fast to maintain once it is in the hair.
* It prevents tangles and knots.
* Doesn't require daily restyling.
* Keeps hair secure (even layered and short hair!)
* Can give the hair a break from the "daily grind" and allow it to rest.
* Less likely to get damaged (therefore the hair can just focus on growing longer!)



 
 

Beware of the Braiding Pitfalls! ...

* Do not braid too tight.
* Do not leave the braids in too long (Two months is the limit generally agreed upon - however I don't think I'd want to leave box braids on a little toddler for anywhere near 2 months! I'd say 3-10 days is about all I'd feel comfortable with for the next few years.)
* If you notice stress on the hairline or little bumps on the scalp - take the braids out immediately.


Continue to care for your hair even while it's in braids - 

* Wash your scalp, condition your braids, add moisture! (just like normal)
* Sleep with a silk or satin scarf (Lycra swim caps or sleep caps can work, too) over your braids to keep them from getting frizzy as quickly. A satin pillowcase works, too, for kiddos who won't keep a cap on overnight!
* Avoid drying your braids with a regular towel (actually it's best to avoid drying unbraided hair with a towel, too - it can cause breakage.) instead use a microfiber towel or some T-shirt material and gently squeeze out the water - do not rub!
* "Braid Spray" is recommended for daily use - to make your own combine distilled water with a natural oil (like jojoba or almond or grapeseed oil) and an essential oil, like lavendar. A mixture like this is good for your hair and your scalp! It can also be used instead of washing the scalp as a means of cleansing.   (Q's review on this recipe will be coming later.)
* Tea tree oil can be used to clean the scalp if it becomes itchy - always use diluted and be reserved about using tea tree oil on kids! (it's strong stuff! Often used for dandruff.)




When it's time to take out the braids -

* Remember that the average head of hair loses 100 hairs a day! You should and will have more hair falling out than normal when you remove the braids! It seems like a lot - but that hair that would have come out earlier hasn't been able to get out of the braid - so if you've kept the braids in for 4 days - the average head of hair would now have 400 hairs fall out when the braids come out! It looks much worse than it really is. :)
* Another tip (depending on your texture needs, etc) that I've read is to gently detangle the hair before you wash it. Getting rid of the "shed hair" first makes for much easier combing and washing.






 

Great Times for Box Braids!
* Camping
* Spending time away from the "usual hairdoer" (if the default hair person is unwilling or resistant, especially)
* Swimming
* Busy days (box braids are quick and easy once they're in!)
* Windy seasons!
* When you want the fun of wavy hair after the braids come out. Braids add waves to straight hair (especially if they're braided when wet and then allowed to fully dry before being removed.) Braids also give curly hair a funky wavy look - known as the "Braid Out." :) Very cute!  Plus, this method of getting wavy hair doesn't involve a curly iron , crimping iron or other heat method which can be damaging to any kind of hair!


Here is a quote from buzzle.com, "It is believed that the ancient Egyptians, Greeks, Romans, Africans, and Asian peoples all wore their hair in braids, which not only looked good but also helped keep hair off the neck in hot climates."  Interesting! I didn't know that so many cultures embraced braiding like this! But I can sure see why!


    RC is for Residual Complications...

    It appears Alexandra's illness is not in the past after all. :( She now has what is basically asthma. Apparently this is a complication from the pneumonia she had and may take some time to before it's gone. She started with breathing treatments + steriods. And then after two weeks, she will be be on just Xopenex as needed. The pneumonia seems to have healed completely, but what she has now could go away quickly or stick around for years, even the rest of her life. There is really no way to tell, but also nothing to suggest it will interfere with normal life. Right now we are hopeful and praying for healing. ;)

    Selasa, 29 Juni 2010

    X Cornrow and Three Strand Twists

    Repost from 2009.

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    If you're a beginner, then this style probably looks a little more difficult than it really is. It's actually really easy! Follow these instructions to see how it's done.


    Instructions:
    • If you do not know how to cornrow, check out our Cornrowing for Beginners post.
    • If you do not know how to do a three strand twist, check out our video tutorial.
    • Part 4 "triangles" in the hair. One on top, one in the back, and one on each side. Make the top and back triangle wider than the side triangles because you will be parting hair out of those sections.
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    • Go ahead and put your two side triangles in a ponytail and twist them up. I decided to do three strand twists instead of two strand twists.

    Here is a side by side comparison shot of two strand and three strand twists.
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    • Part a little hair out of the top triangle from the left side, continue parting down to your back triangle from the right side. Cornrow that section all the way back.
    • Repeat above step on the other side. You will have to cross this cornrow over the first cornrow you already did, just pick up where you left off.
    • Put your top and back section in a ponytail and twist it up.
    • I added a few beads on the ends of each twist and cornrow. That's it! All done!

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    Sidewinder Hair Holder Winners!

    Thanks so much to everyone who entered the giveaway! Big thanks to Sidewinder Hair Holders for the giveaway.

    The winners are...


    Stephfm said...
    I follow BBB and would love to try them in clear.

    Nik-Did you have to put anything in at the end of the twists to hold the sidewinder on?



    Erica said...
    I follow BBB and I would like to try the Violet and Teal hair holders...Thanks! Erica W.



    Amanda said...
    I follow BBB and would like the blue or sky blue. I love what you did with these in your little girl's hair. Amanda B


    My2gurlz said...
    Hi Nikki, I follow BBB and I would like to try the violet ones. :)

    Congrats to you all! Please sent me your mailing info by July 3rd, 2010 with your one color choice of Sidewinder Hair Holders. beadsbraidsbeyond@yahoo.com


    If you did not win and would like to purchase hair holders, check out their website. Also check out their hair style gallery for more styling ideas!

    Diva Spotlight: Tia

    Repost

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    Tell us a little about yourself & your daughter:

    Hi - I’m Lyn! I was born and raised in the UK…I moved out to the USA 7 years ago to do my masters, met my husband, and never left! J I’m white (English, Irish, Spanish & French); hubby is black with a little Native American. We have two kids, Tia, who will be 3 in March, and Benjamin, who is 5 months old.

    Tia’s hair is a mix of 3c and 4a. It has really started to grow a LOT in the last 6 months. I thought it would be fun for everyone to see a picture that was taken almost exactly a year ago today. I remember at the time wondering if her hair would ever be long enough to do anything other than teeny tiny puffs!

    What is your daughter's hair care routine?

    I only just started learning how to do actual styles (e.g. anything other than a puff or a ponytail!) a month ago, thanks to this blog and BBC! So her hair is still a work in progress and all the pictures you see are my first attempts at each style.

    We wash her hair with shampoo on weekends and sometimes co-wash (with conditioner only) mid-week. I would like to leave styles in for a week but they usually start to get fuzzy after about 4 days. Tia has been begging me to do new styles all the time since I started doing her hair regularly, so we have been doing 2-3 styles a week right now. She wears a satin bonnet to bed, in the car and at naptime; if her hair is not in a style I put it in 4 chunky braids before bedtime.

    What kind of products do you use on her hair?

    After trying what seemed like every product imaginable, we found that the Curly Q line works great for Tia. We’ve been using the Curls products for nearly 2 years now and I love them. We wash her hair once a week with Curly Q shampoo, condition it with Curly Q conditioner, detangle with fingers, comb through with a wide tooth comb, then leave for 5-10 mins before rinsing. After washing we apply Curly Q moisturizer and custard, and let it air dry. We use both the moisturizer and custard daily to freshen her curls (if it’s not in a style). For styles I usually use Curly Q Princess Glaze on each section before I cornrow/braid it. Sometimes I also use ORS Lock and Twist gel. I’m planning on trying Curls Gel-es’c soon too.

    Have you ever used chemicals on her hair?

    Nope! And I won’t be!

    Can we see a few of your favorite styles?

    Cornrows with 3-strand twists (this was my first attempt at 3-strand twists): (on the left)

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    Cornrows with a braided ponytail:

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    Veil style with box braids:

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    Full head cornrows (this was my first ever attempt at any type of style and so also my first time attempting cornrows (yes I was being ambitious…or foolish…I’m not sure which, lol!)

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    Braided pigtails:

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    Cornrows with loose curls:

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    Braid-out:

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    Chunky veil-style:

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    They are all so cute! How did you learn to do all of this?

    Pretty much exclusively from Beads Braids Beyond and all the helpful links you posted, like the cornrow instructions. I still need more practice, but since my daughter is now constantly begging for me to do her hair, I don’t think it’ll be a problem getting lots of practice in!

    How does your daughter feel about her hair? Can we see her favorite style?

    She loves it! She is always telling people her hair is beautiful. The other day she told me I must wish I had hair like hers, because mine is just boring and straight! Lmao! She is right!

    Her favorite style is anything with beads, but she specifically asked for me to do a heart in her hair with this style (I tried!). (on the right)

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    If you had to share one hair care tip, what would it be?

    Satin bonnet in the car!!! I don’t know about you all, but our car seat is capable of taking a great style and turning the back of it into a hot mess by the time we have gotten to the first stop light. We have a designated bonnet that stays in the car so we don’t forget.

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    I am so impressed that Lyn just started styling her daughters hair! Wow. She is going to be a pro in no time. Tia is absolutely adorable! I love how colorful and playful her styles are. I am also honored that the blog has inspired/helped Lyn! That is my goal for B,B,B- to simply help others, because I was once the mama who only knew how to do 1 or 2 puffs. Keep up the great work Lyn! You are doing a fabulous job!

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    Hair Share!

    Big thanks to everyone who sent in pictures for Hair Share! Click here to see how you can participate in next week's Hair Share!


    Holly sent in this adorable mohawk style and half cornrow style done on her cutie Alayah.

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    Kristen sent in these pictures of her girls Avi and Ava. Ava is rocking a mohawk and Avi has a cute braid out, and a new box braid style.

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    Nicole sent in these pictures of her adorable 1 year old, Asia. Cornrows in, and cornrows out. How cute!

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    Renee shared this beautiful style done on her daughter Amirah.

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    Crystal sent in these cute styles done on her gorgeous daughter Cadance. The first style is her remix of our Side cornrows into sister twists style. I love how she did this! The next one she did a Minnie Mouse inspired style. "I flat twisted Cadance’s hair and then I put it in two pony tails but instead of pulling the hair all the way through I left the last bit tucked under on each one and then she had “mouse ears”"

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    Last but certainly not least, Aisha sent in these pictures of her beautiful daughter Anisa.

    She sent me these pictures as soon as they got their Bee Mine Products! Can you say fast shipping?
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    She found this beautiful dress at Macy's.
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    This cute hat is from Gymboree!
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    And check out her new protective style!
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    Diary of a Kinky Curly Transitioner Interview


    Check out our interview with Alice here! Feel free to leave a comment and browse around! :)

    Hair Share, Diva Spotlight, and the winners of the Sidewinder Hair Holders will be posted today.

    Don't forget to enter the Blended Cutie Giveaway, where you could win your choice of 3 full size Blended Cutie Products.

    Senin, 28 Juni 2010

    Esty Stores - Hair Bows, etc

    Curly Hairdo Ideas's salute to Esty.com  :)  
    "Your place to buy and sell all things vintage, handmade, and supplies"

    Here are a few Esty stores that sell Hair Bows, Headbands, Flowers, and more!

    Britta's Boutique

    Soda Pop Kids


    3 Little Giggles


    Shining Stars Boutique


    Sweet and Chic Bowtique


    To Sweet Pea From Me


    Babalina's Creation


    The Little Ballerina

    Sweet Bitty Bows


    Princess Grace Bowtique


    Lemon Drop Baby Boutique


    Kute Kiddo (embroidered hair bow)


    Daisy Dew


    Boutique Hermosa


    Belinda Avant Designs


    Piccadilly Clips

    and that's not all! Head on over to Etsy to search some more! :)  It's worth it!

    Minggu, 27 Juni 2010

    Where I Buy Our Flexi-rods


    Some of you may know that I love flexi-rods. I have used them on my hair and my daughters hair. Click *here* to see some pictures. Many of you have asked me where I buy our flexi-rods for such a low price. I wish it was a world wide store, but unfortunately it's not. I buy our flexi-rods (they are called twist rods on the packs) from a family owned "$1 Store" (yes, that's the name on the sign). They come in a variety of sizes and they are all $2.50 per pack. I bought some large (1 1/4") flexi-rods today. There are three per pack. I also picked up two pink satin pillowcases for $1 each.

    I have seen different brand flexi-rods being sold at ridiculously high prices. I guess they are ridiculous to me since I can get them for so cheap but I highly suggest you all check out your family owned dollar stores. If they don't have any, ask them if they would be able to order some. It doesn't hurt to try, right?

    Note: I have had our orange flexi-rods for over 1 year now and they still work great!



    Edit: I googled "Response Twist Rods" and *this* website came up. They cost a little more than what I pay for them, not sure how much shipping is but I thought I would post it anyway. Another edit: They are located in London so shipping is probably a little high. Sorry!